Relationships can be extremely complicated.
After all, people fall in love all the time, but most people experience breakups.
In other words, you can be in love with a person and eventually break up with that same person.
It doesn’t get more complicated then that.
It would be a lot easier if we knew certain signs that we could look for to determine if we are with ” the one.”
These tips should help you figure this out for yourself.
You can tell you’re with your soulmate, if both of you feel comfortable using the bathroom in each others presence. Given that our bathroom behavior is typically private, most of us feel guarded about what we do while we are in there. However, once you meet your soulmate, these guards fall down. Whether you are comfortable leaving the door open, or inviting your soulmate in the restroom while you were using it, if you feel comfortable enough to “let it loose,” chances are you are with your soulmate.
You are with your soulmate if you can talk openly and honestly about sex with your partner. Unfortunately, beginning a sexual relationship with someone new might mean having some awkward conversations. When you are with your soulmate, you are willing to withstand the awkwardness, in an effort to create the union. Truth be told, your soulmate would be invested in your sexual satisfaction which would make whatever awkward feelings you have about talking about this topic, worth the discomfort in the long run.
You can tell you’re with your soulmate, if you were more concerned with being nice then being right. Unfortunately, even the best relationships have conflicts. But relationships that are not as intense, tend to resolve their conflicts in poor ways such as yelling, name calling, and sometimes violence. But if you are more concerned with maintaining the integrity of yourself and your partner, as opposed to being right, it is a good sign that you are with your soulmate.
Finally being with the right person, or your soulmate, should make you feel complete. This person should complement you in such a way that you can’t imagine your life without him or her. It doesn’t mean that life will be perfect, but it does mean that your life will change in a positive direction because that person is now a part of it.
While knowing whether or not you are with your soulmate is a personal decision, you can’t get help with sorting these ideas out for yourself. If you would like to run the ideas you’re having (or not having) with your potential soulmate, by a professional,